Happy New Year Everyone!

WELCOME TO 2008!
I pray you had a happy Holiday season, and that your New Year brings peace, happiness, love, good health and lots of prosperity! Now I have to vent about something...

What I'm going to say may sound ungrateful to some but not all; some would understand. Although I thank God that my husband and I were able to spend time with our families during Christmas and New Year's, I was very hurt that not one member of my family gave me gifts that had to do with my interests -- reading, writing and publishing. The Christmas presents I did receive had to do with music or clothes.

Now you're probably saying, "At least you got gifts! There are children and people in this world who did not get anything, or who didn't even have a holiday to speak of..." I do realize, and know very well, that there are people less fortunate than I.

But I am only human so I was extremely hurt that my Christmas gifts were meant more for someone else rather than me. Especially that all year long I was telling my husband (and my mom) exactly what I wanted. So please remember that when buying presents for someone other than yourself, we must think of what the gift-recipient would like or love rather than what we ourselves would like.

The one great thing about Christmas this year that I do not have to vent about is that my hubby and I were sooo happy to be with our loved one's! It is always special when we see our families, and we cherish the times spent with them.

However, what should we do if we have received Christmas presents from loved ones and friends that we either did not like or had nothing to do what we love? I finally decided what the most practical solution to this dilemna is --
Go out and purchase gifts for ourselves that's what we do!

Or, if you're like some I've been reading about on eBay, we can sell them to someone else. Personally, though, I think it is truly tacky to sell Christmas presents given to us on eBay. A better solution is to either buy ourselves what we really wanted or re-wrap those gifts and give them to someone you know will love them as much as you hated them. If you have a different solution to this problem, I'd love to hear from you! Thanks for listening to my vent...

Oh my, I forgot to tell you that as soon as I realized I can always go out and buy myself what I truly wanted, I wasn't as hurt anymore. However, I do still wish that my loved one's had remembered my interests and purchased Christmas gifts accordingly. Maybe next year they will? That would be nice. But I sure am not waiting until next Christmas to get what I want :)

Sorry I have to get back to work now...besides working on my January 10th magazine issue just now, I'm also in the middle of writing more in my third book. For the first time ever I made a New Year's Resolution for 2008. And that is to finally finish my fiction novel and get it published and and in your hands this year! So stay tuned for further developments with my upcoming book...

Again, Happy New Year! I pray that it is a great year for you.

Rosanne Catalano
Publisher / Editor / Author
The Cat's Meow for Writers & Readers Ezine TM
Now On Sale: Mirrored Images by Rosanne Catalano
www.rosannecatalano.net

Have a Question...

My hubby reminded me last night of the time when we first fell in love, 9 years ago, and were openly affectionate with one another to the point two of our former friends were embarrassed rather than being happy for us that we were in love.

Their embarrassment at us opening kissing and hugging (nothing more) is something I will never understand. Yet people can watch a porno movie and not be embarrassed about watching two or more people totally drugged out and having sex?! Getting paid to have sex no less! That doesn't embarrass anyone; yet mine and my hubby openly displaying our love for one another does embarrass??? I don't get it.

If anyone can explain to me why watching a couple fall in love embarrasses other people but watching a porno movie doesn't, I would love to understand this. Because I do not understand one bit!

And now I'm cooking supper before I go lay my head down for that much-needed rest my body is crying out for...all week have been fighting off a bad cold and fever. Yet I did manage to complete my February 10th magazine [Valentine's Day Special Edition issue] and work on my third book-in-progress, plus other story articles for publication elsewhere. I hate to say this, but I don't know where I get the strength to do all this...it has to be my passion for what I'm doing in writing & publishing! But in spite of how bad I'm feeling today, I was compelled to ask that question above; I truly don't understand why open displays of affection between a loving couple would embarrass other's...and yet watching porno movies does not embarrass other people! If you think I'm stupid or naive for not understanding "why" please do let me know lol. Thanks dear readers.

Rosanne
www.rosannecatalano.net
Publisher: The Cat's Meow for Writers & Readers Ezine, an online progressive magazine
Author: Mirrored Images [1] (2007), Touch of Tomorrow-In Loving Memory (2003) and numerous story articles published in print & online
Blog: thecatsmeowforwritersreaders.blogspot.com
Senior Writer: Storytime Tapestry newsletter
Columnist: Wt~In Spirit Christian Literary print-magazine.